Call him Daddy, you won’t regret it!
“I’ve heard from a fair amount of men who were turned off by it, and were worried that it was an indicator of ‘daddy issues’,” says sex therapist Vanessa Marin. “Yes, ‘daddy’ can mean ‘father,’ but we also use the word to indicate when someone is the boss, in charge, a protector, or doing a good job.”
Preach, Vanessa! I am a part of that “we” conglomerate that she speaks of. I will call you daddy during sex and other times when I feel that you are killin’ it and the boss of this (insert fun vagina nickname) and only then. If you don’t get called daddy then you simply didn’t earn the name, sweetheart.
For the ones who think it may have something to do with daddy issues, let me explain. No one is trying to fuck their own dad, that is sick and twisted. You can be the daddy or be boss of other things: cooking, foot rubs, compliments (all things that I like) and I’ll let you know by giving you this well deserved title. If you really don’t get the correlation then you’ve never been the daddy of anything so you would never understand.
I asked several men how they would feel about being called daddy, and 1 out of 10 of the men felt weird about it. There is a large number of men who not only get it but fucking love it! And I mean love it in bed and outside of bed. Now don’t just go yelling daddy all night, there’s an art to this. You let the sex build up, get intense and when he starts giving those deep thrusts let him hear you moan, “YES DADDY!” He will be the happiest man on earth, and you hopefully will have climaxed and be one happy camper also!
Keep in mind, like with a majority of my topics, I always state that before you go ahead and try something new please communicate prior. What if the name calling is a turn off? Just hint at it one day and test the temp. I’m sure he won’t say no! I have even tried it on complete strangers and the reaction is priceless. The best one was a bartender, I tried to get an order with him for a long time; he finally comes over to get the order for me and my girls. When he delivers our drinks I say, “thank you daddy.” He stopped, gave this face…
said, “ohh, you’re welcome.” And he extra took care of us the rest of the evening.
Message here is that “Daddy” is a nice way to tell your man that he’s doing a great job. So give him that and see what you get in return 😉