For every five husbands out of twenty that decide to encourage their wives towards cucking them, there are the other fifteen who live in the realm of fantasizing about what it would be like if they actually got their spouse to indulge in such activity.
A growing number of husbands are becoming aware of this social trend. Something that hitherto has been unknown to them, even though they might have encountered it in one form or another — maybe hearing about some other couple who are practising it for real, or even seeing such a scenario occur in a movie.
The great film director Stanley Kubrick shed light on the subject. In his final movie Eyes Wide Shut, a female character (Nicole Kidman) narrates to her husband (Tom Cruise) a close encounter she once had with another man while on vacation, early in their marriage. How she had thought of risking her marriage just to be with that nameless stranger, but in the end had reneged on it. Throughout the movie, we follow her husband as he goes about his nightly business, but inexplicably becomes obsessed with the poignant vision of his wife in bed with another man…
Such a scenario does play in the hearts and minds of many husbands out there, from all walks of life, though they might vehemently deny it. But let’s not kid ourselves. This cuckold urge is a trend as old as human nature itself, though it has remained hidden from societal eyes.
Coming to the present, most would ask the question why: “Why would any man desire for another man to have sex with his wife?”
This is far removed from those who are practicing swingers. The notion that an upstanding individual of society would, in the darkest recess of his mind, actually derive pleasure from seeing his wife frolic and succumb to the will of another man (a stranger, perhaps), must seem unsettling for most to dare comprehend. The question is why are more and more spouses so enamoured by this trend?
The answers to that question are as ambivalent as the act itself:
VISUAL PLEASURE:
There is the visual aspect of it, which many would consider palatable. Like watching your favourite porn star, being all too familiar with her distinctive grunts and moans, the look of ecstasy on her face when watching her get penetrated, or the sheer satisfaction of watching her body slam against her lover… most husbands would love to picture their wives taking the place of this porn star. That makes their viewing pleasure heightened.
For many husbands, seeing their wives let loose in the arms of another man is like having something but setting it free, knowing it will inevitably return to them. To imagine the wife being seduced by another man, to play with images in their head of seeing the wife eventually succumb to the stranger’s probing courtship, and especially to see other men find her attractive is a bonus point no husband can refute. The same goes for the wife, as she realises that neither age nor her length of her marriage have depreciated her seductive ability in another man’s eyes.
ANOTHER MAN, BETTER SEX:
As marriages become stale with time, so, too, does the sex. Over time the sex becomes all too familiar and unimpressive to both: the wife can set her timer as regards how soon her man is bound to climax, likewise the husband listens to every moan coming from her as a whistle note he has heard too many times and can’t be sure if she’s doing it merely to goose him towards hurrying to climax or if she really still enjoys their romp. And for some couples, their sex life has become almost non-existent. What better way to revive the magic than having the wife get her pleasure back with someone besides her husband? Someone whom the husband expects won’t merely make love to her, but rather fuck her. Fuck her rough, hard, and for a long time. Someone to make her scream, gasp, and groan louder than ever… and if possible, make the bed groan too.
HIS SUBMISSIVE NATURE:
A husband is meant to be dominant to his wife. There is a flipside to this, however: now and then, most husbands desire to submit to their submissive nature, and let the wife become the dominant one who gets to take charge not just of her sex life but also his. Who better to enforce this idea than the lover who enters their life? The stranger becomes entrenched in the couple’s bedroom and becomes a fervent strongpoint to unveiling the husband’s submissive nature while he assumes the role of the dominant one.
This might well bring out a husband’s bisexual desires, which prior to this period he has kept hidden in the deepest recess of his subconscious. Some wives are unaware of this part of their husband’s sexuality and might be quite shocked to see it come to the forefront. As the husband continues to embrace his submissive nature, which might lead to cross-dressing and other fetishes, it is left for them as a couple to embrace the lifestyle together, or call it quits. And should they decide to embrace it together, the next move is finding a suitable lover/dom worthy of pleasing them both.
HER PLEASURE, HER FUN:
In some cases, the husband might not have any ulterior motive besides the fact that he cherishes his wife so much he is willing to sacrifice his own pleasure for her to get more acquainted with hers. He desires not to explore the cuckold lifestyle with her, he wants nothing to do with relishing his own submissive nature… all he wants is to sit back and pretend to be the housewife in the home while she gets to gallivant, exploring her adulterous sexuality with her lover(s), even if that might seem outlandish and unbecoming of a married woman.
WHY NOT?:
This reason might seem facetious, but it is true. The cuckold lifestyle existed before anyone thought of the word. Even the word itself does more harm to the imagination than the actual lifestyle does. While many view the idea of swinging as being a healthy adventure that couples would only partake in during holidays, the cuckold lifestyle can be achieved in just about any setting. Couples need not travel far to enjoy the benefits of this activity, not when they can frequently bring it to their home without even their neighbours being aware.
Which leaves for most couples fantasising about it to ask themselves the question: “Why not get into it? Who knows, it might be the right antidote to take us out of the doldrums of our marriage . . .”
What’s the worst that could happen? At least then they can take benign pleasure in having a Black Master in their bedroom to keep them company.
